Few things are unpredictable, two of them are life and time. We can never be able to exactly predict what’s next and it’s a fact that surprises are hidden in life and time. We get to know them when right time comes. But does it mean that we could never be able to do anything to know our future? Then I must tell you, life and time are two unpredictable things, life comes under time, even if we try time never reveals before it wishes to be revealed. Then the big question is how to be successful in life?
I remember that when I was a kid my parents taught me “time is that racing horse which can never be stopped by any smartness. The only way is to ride over it to win over every battle of life.” It means one can never be a winner in front of time but if he wants, he can ride over time and win over every situation. We all know time brings two things, one is the obstacles and other one is the opportunity. One has to move forward with opportunities saving himself from the obstacles. There are few most powerful life lessons which I have learned from my life and today I want to share those.
The biggest problem in world today is that no one is original, what they show of themselves and what they really are differ. First is the one they show to world, which is merely reflection of how world wants to see them and second is the one what actually is the true self. Life shows ups and downs and to overcome these situation one have to make changes in themselves. Forgetting the fact that they are leaving their original personality behind. Whatever a situation is, a person should always have a standard life.
Learn from mistakes
Learning from mistakes is one of the good habits of successful people. Every human in this world somehow makes mistakes, because no one in this world is born perfect. In every difficult situation, you have to take a decision. It either turns out to be a mistake or a right decision. When you make a right decision, sometimes it leads to over confidence. Even if you make a mistake never forget the lesson of your mistake. Because when you forget it once, you will make it again.
Believe in yourself
One should have belief in himself that as long as he is on the right path he can’t lose. Believe in yourself, when you believe in yourself, positivity stays. When positivity stays it doesn’t let negative thoughts enter which further makes your decision rightful and leads to success.
Value what you have
Not every person in this world has everything, your life is someone else’s dream. What you have is priceless and what you don’t have is not required. Your thoughts and efforts are what make you, so don’t complain for baseless things. Believe in god when you will be capable to handle that thing, he will give you. Because sword can’t be given in monkey’s hand. Have a hard-working nature and value those things you have, believe me they are enough to make your happiness stay forever.
This is considered as one of the good qualities of successful people. You can be a great person if you dream high, though it doesn’t mean you have high status or money. A person’s biggest asset is life. As long as a person dreams high to stay happy and makes efforts to remove someone else’s pain, he is a human. Dream high for yourself and for others.
Never give up
Life gives many chances and one should never forget that the most important thing to gain success is staying positive and moving forward by making continuous efforts. When you give-up on making efforts you will never know what actually you are capable of. So don’t give up easily.
Stay true to yourself
What a person makes others to think about himself is his own choice but it’s important to be true to himself. A person who isn’t true to himself can never be trustworthy to anyone in this world. Be original by accepting your habits whether good or bad.
Learn from everyone
Every single person on this universe have something special that can only be seen in them, whenever you look at them, there’s one specific trait which makes them look different from others, and what’s surprising is that it could only be seen in them. There are countless people you meet in a day, and numerous things you do, so don’t avoid learning. You can be a great learner if you adopt one good habit from others.
Do it now
There are number of times when you want to do something and you say, ‘i’ll do it tomorrow”. Tomorrow never comes. Your wishes and sometimes a great idea loses it’s value because you shift it to another day’s schedule. Don’t forget, life rarely gives chance to a person. Take the leap!
Value god’s creation
Humans can save entire universe but entire universe can’t save a single human. It’s because we have a special ability to observe, analyse and give a conclusion. Whenever nature gives you a chance to do something for it, never step back. We are debtors and one day we have to repay to this universe.
A kind person can easily be friends with anyone. One thing to be kept in mind is that there is power in kindness. A kind person can change everyone whoever comes in his contact. Stay calm, stay kind when you know there’s no one who is more powerful than god. Your attitude can make others change their nature too.
Forget your ego
Ego can never give you anything, an egoistic person can never see reality. His ego never fades and blurs his vision to see reality. As long as it exists, you will lose your qualities one by one which leads to ultimate failures in life.
Forgiveness is a key which can help you connect to distinct persons. Forgiveness builds a bridge of positivity which connects two souls and lets them forget their past fights. Forgive others when you know you have already made several mistakes in past. Stay calm because every human in this world makes mistakes.
Walk your talk
Everything is connected. We can never imagine how our small actions impact our image in other’s views. So to make yourself a better person and a nice human being, stay true to your words. Your words are the path you move on.
Never over think
Sometimes it happens when we think too much about a topic or situation, our thoughts have a quick flow and we can’t react to each of those thoughts and at that stage our thoughts make us stressed. So it’s best to think on a topic, make an observation, do deep study but don’t let those thoughts affect you negatively.
Don’t be stressed
Stress is something which can be seen at every stage and in everyone. What leads to stress is negativity. Never have a negative point of view for anything. As long as you stay positive and you are passionate to move forward, you wouldn’t be stressed.
Think of collective benefits
Individualism is something which has actually created most of the problems in this world. We can’t ignore that our individual benefits give final result but our individual benefits can never help everyone. Few efforts should be made for society also.
Be prepared before time
For every work there’s a time and a moment decided by destiny. But to make yourself life long successful, it is important to be prepared before time and to do so you need to utilize time and avoid wasting it on useless things.
Manage your time
Everyone has 24 hours in a day. Everything depends on our efforts. There’s only one way to win and that is to manage time. As long as you are able to manage your working in synchronization with the time, you can win over every situation. You can never be defeated if you are a good time manager.
Think before saying a word
Words have some power believe or not. You are affected by your own words and so are others. So think atleast once before you say anything.
Don’t be lazy
Laziness can enlarge the distance between you and your dreams. Your laziness is the biggest hurdle in your life. Once you remove laziness, I guarantee, you will be the king of your own life.
Qualities take you to success. You can never achieve success unless and until you have best qualities. Your qualities shorten your distance towards your success and make you best all over.
Remove your bad habits
On the contrary bad habits are those which pull you backward from your success. You have bad habits and it isn’t wrong, but it’s good to remove them from you permanently. Don’t try to keep your bad habits. All they can give you is pain.
Never forget god
Never forget that one, who has created us all. Our life is his creation. Thank him for such a beautiful life. If it wasn’t him, a happy and peaceful life would just be our dream and not reality. A human who remembers God and his world, knows that nothing in this world can happen without his permission.
Make your every moment special
Life is too short to be wasted, make every moment special like a dream. Try to live your life each and every moment to the fullest.
Your life is precious, you can change the current you by making few small changes in yourself. Once you make a change, the next moment you will realize it wasn’t tough, all it requires is your little attention. Make every moment a beautiful memory by making yourself a better human. Trust me there will be a moment when you will be, what you want to be.